Important Conversations: Hospice Care and Other End of Life Considerations

Important conversations: Hospice and End of Life ConsiderationsAs humans, we have a unique ability to both accept our mortality and deny it. For those who care for the elderly, this presents a challenge. How do you ensure that your loved one’s wishes regarding hospice care and other important matters are carried out, when it’s so difficult to begin the conversation?

The last thing you want is for a sudden illness to rob your elderly relative of the opportunity to make his or her own decisions, and the only way to avoid that is to begin discussing options early, preferably while your loved one is still healthy and active. A good way to approach the subject is by examining the difficulties other family members or friends are having. For example, if an older sibling of your relative failed to designate a durable power of attorney before becoming incapacitated, you might talk about the challenges faced by his or her caregivers, and how planning ahead would have been easier for everyone involved.

Keep in mind, though, that decisions about end of life and hospice care can’t be made during a one-time conversation. The discussion will most likely be ongoing, and will cover many more topics than we’ve outlined here. A professional geriatric care manager can help facilitate conversations like this and will know what you need to talk about and how to prepare for the future.  The most important thing is to begin talking about the issues now, before there is an emergency. As hard as it is today, imagine how much more difficult it will be after your loved one becomes ill.

Tim Colling
Tim Colling

Tim Colling is the founder and President of A Servant's Heart In-Home Care, which provided in-home caregiving services in San Diego County, and also of A Servant's Heart Geriatric Care Management, which provided
professional geriatric care management services and long term care placement services in San Diego County. Tim has more than 30 years of experience in management in a variety of industries. He held a Certified Care Manager credential from the National Academy of Certified Care Managers. Tim is also a Certified Public Accountant (retired), and received his Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting from California State University at San Diego. In addition to writing blog posts here for the Servant’s Heart blog, Tim also is a regular contributor to and to as well as blogs of other eldercare services provider companies. Finally, Tim is also the president of A Servant's Heart Web Design and Marketing, which provides home care marketing as well as website design and online marketing for those who serve the elderly and their families.

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